Older men have a huge blind spot when it comes to age.
They refuse to even consider women their own age, even if she’s fit and attractive.
I don’t mean those men any disrespect, I just want to date a guy closer to my age so that I have a longer future with him, and I don’t feel that I should have to apologize for that.
I am a youthful, fit and free-spirited woman and to be honest, I’m not ready for the retired 65-70 year old guys.
Ive asked some of the guys my age who have contacted me as an “exception” about their success with their age range search.
It is often 10-20 years younger than them and these are very “average” appearing guys .
I’m guessing they check out my profile, see my age, and probably read no further.
Even if I am within their desired range, I still don’t get much of a response.
I initiate contact with men in an age-range of about 3 years younger up to about 8 years older than myself.