Maybe you hate the outdoors and would never in a million years be caught doing watersports.
There’s nothing stopping you from exploring a phone sex fantasy of getting it on in a raft in the lake when the lake..in your mind.
(Though, let's be real here, the GPS location services of many apps are sketchy at best.) There are apps for all kinds of sexualities ranging from casual hookups to specific fetishes. Go for it — heck, why not do it anonymously while you're at it; app, you can smile proudly to yourself knowing you've found love (or lust) in a rather not-hopeless place.
And, hey, there's no shame if you're just looking for the latter; there's obviously an app for that, too.
Treating phone sex as sexy little appetizing pieces can help take some of the pressure off.
It’s perfectly acceptable to tell your partner these are your fantasies for phone sex only, and not fantasies for reality.
Lauren says just like with IRL sex, it’s important to reconnect after phone sex with laughter and wind down talk after you both orgasm.Let’s say, you really love the fantasy of public sex, but you know, don’t have any actual plans to follow through on that.Phone sex is a great and safe place to talk about the things you wouldn’t or couldn’t do in real life.So, make sure you both block out enough time to do this after things get hot and heavy on the phone.Although, phone sex quickies can be just as hot too Imagine you had that sexy conversation right as your partner was about to leave work and come home?Try sending off a “can’t wait to hear your voice tonight,” to leave them wanting more.