Imagine you’re just hanging out in bed together watching Netflix at home.Remembering all the fun things you used to do together when you weren’t dependent on a webcam to see each other will help make Skype sex start to feel a bit more normal.There can be something strangely sexy about watching someone fulfil your fantasies without you having to say them out loud.As Ronan Keating always said: “You say it best when you say nothing at all”.
Obviously if you can find a computer with a big screen, that would be great.Maybe earlier on in the day, start (not-so-subtly) hinting to your partner what you’d like them to do so they’re not just left cluelessly staring at you and rubbing their penis when the big moment comes.If you find you’re unable to talk to each other without bursting into nervous giggles, or you run the risk that your housemate is going to hear your dirty talk through the wall, turn the mics off and text each other some helpful suggestions.If my partner weren't reassuring me I was hot, it would just make me feel weird. ) It's scary to be that vulnerable, so make sure you appreciate your partner out loud. But before you take a screenshot, make sure your boundaries are clear.Even though you might be thinking, "My God, those are the greatest pectoral muscles in the history of pectoral muscles," there's no way for your partner to know that unless you spit it out. Personally, I couldn't care less if there are naked pictures of me on the internet, since there already naked pictures of me on the internet. Skype and most other video chat services include a little picture of you nested in the big picture of the person you're chatting with. The person you're all twitterpated over could turn out to be a jerk.I'm still figuring it all out, but here are a few tips I've learned from my foray into this brave new world of e-humping. It's like porn you direct and co-star in, which is both exciting and nerve-wracking.