Other qualities are acquired through habit or from friends and not all of them can be altered.
Observing women who are known to be classy (whether on television or in real life), paying attention and trying to identify the specific elements of the behavior and actions that make them stand out and come across as more classy will take any woman who is willing to become more classy a long way toward that goal.
Simple, straight colors (white, black, blue) flatter most women.
Following temporary, mediocre fashion trends and fads certainly does not add to being classy.
Elegance is in her voice, movement and body language, manner of speech, the way she stands sits, and responds to other people around her.
Some of these traits, such as voice, and a walk – are part of our nature, while other elements of elegance, such as our interpersonal skills are strongly linked to our upbringing.
Just take a look at most of the men’s dating profiles, and you will see that practically all of them want to meet and date a woman who has “class.” Indeed, being called “classy” is an ultimate compliment to a woman. After searching the internet for an answer to this question, I wasn’t very satisfied, because every attempt to define a “classy woman” had one fundamental flaw.
On the contrary – her confidence puts her at ease and relieves her of any desire or need to validate herself to her company.
Green/orange/blue hair, tattoos and piercings all over or otherwise looking like a girl with a dragon tattoo might help you express your individuality but they are surely not a sign of being classy or sophisticated. Her mission in life is not in challenging men and competing with men wherever possible; she enjoys pleasing men without feeling ashamed of it, and is proud to be a woman.
She recognizes the differences between men and women in psychology, physiology and sexuality and accepts those differences as laws of nature.
It might be something as small and seemingly insignificant as a laughter of an actress that you would notice in a woman that strikes you as so much softer, feminine and attractive than the one you overheard the other night at a bar from a woman, whose entire body was covered with tattoos and piercings.
However, when it comes to elegance and class, there is no such thing as small and insignificant. being classy is a sum of many, many elements of one’s personality, behavior, and actions, some of which are more obvious than others, but all of which are essential for the “total package” to be considered elegant and classy.
A woman who has true class and strong sense of self does not need to run around and tell everyone how smart and successful she is, whether it’s in “real” life, or on Facebook, Linked In, Ok Cupid or anywhere else.