Decide if a DWM lifestyle is appropriate for you and your partner, or just you./span Rakhem Seku and his wife Hakashamut Kenya K Stevens are the founders of Juju Mama, LLC, a progressive love movement with workshops and a support network for progressive relating.
Seku says, “Marriage is a great club to belong to say ‘I’m married’ and flash the ring.” He says he meets many men whose “intention is to be exclusive, but it’s not working for them.
Here I am having fun and doing all these things and am I leaving him out?
”There are of course the ménage à trois scenarios as opposed to dating a number of people.
To Seku, “Traditional relating is just not matching up. Some men look elsewhere in order to feel like they’re not dying.And progressive lovers are very obvious.” He says those who are not ready would not even be willing to consider it, especially males: “Even though they desire that type of freedom, most men are hell-bent against their wives doing it.”My husband has two long term friends.One he rekindled a relationship with during his proposal to me. I’m more social,” says Mys Quiraa, a 34-year-old couples counselor and founder of Sacred Awakenings. They decided to begin open relating after eight years of ups and downs.He’s not able to satisfy her and he’s literally decided to bring someone else in,” notes Menzise. Most people wouldn’t believe how common a practice this is with a relationship: A man literally finding another to have sex with their wife.But some guys feel they’re providing more pleasure.And seeing someone else pleasuring provides security.”Seku presents progressive love as being the way to security.