The only downside to texting, of course, is the lack of the nonverbal and verbal cues we take for granted in face-to-face communication.
When you and your guy are texting, you can’t read his facial expressions, his body language, or his tone of voice when he tells you something. We asked a few college guys to give us the scoop on what their texts really mean.
And if the guy declines your offer or suddenly got sick only an hour before he’s supposed to see you? A guy who likes you will either reschedule the date or find another way to see you.
Nothing short of the end of the world will stop him.
If you keep trying to flirt with a guy who has sent you the friend-zoning text, you risk scaring him off.
Rob*, a Hiram College senior, says, “I’ll text something like ‘Good morning, sunshine’ to wake her up and keep her smiling all day.” When a guy sends you this kind of text, (especially the morning after a date or hook-up), it means that he’s thinking about you and wants you to think about him the rest of the day.
The “Friend-Zoning” Text Friend-zoning texts tend to include the words “like a sister to me” or “buddy” or “pal” in them. You met this great guy at a party, and he’s been texting you about some hobby you share or something funny you both witnessed.
” According to Sean, this will help you gauge the situation.
Your guy might respond with a longer answer and let you know what’s up, and you can take it from there.
Then you start flirting, and the guy starts calling you his buddy whenever he responds to you.