Then people say, “it was true love, it was MEANT TO BE.” The problem is, even IF he leaves his wife for you— whitewashing the morality/shame issue— you’re still picking wrong.
That’s why it’s so important to talk about the OTHER reasons why creating a relationship with someone married is bad news.
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Whatever the reason it’s unlikely that there will be a happy ever after as you’ll never ever be able to trust him.
Making Sense of an Attraction to a Married Man Having a Secret Love Affair Community Q&A Loving the married man. This is for the women who love their married men and need positive guidance and support to work through their issues.
No matter what side of the fence you’re on both can agree that this is a very controversial and moralistically sensitive topic. The touch of a hand, an innocent conversation, a glance?
Are you someone who is in love with a married man, and wants to continue dating him? Sometimes it is also common for a woman to fall in love with a man who is already married but is seeking a female friend to talk to about his life outside his marital life. Most relationships where a women is dating a married man doesn’t last long. Dating a married man is no joke and carries a lot of drawbacks as discussed already.If find it helpful, please share it with your friends by using one of the buttons below.There are some really good reasons to avoid dating a married man BESIDES the glaringly obvious, 100%, completely valid moral argument.This means that he's likely to resort to some devious behavior with you if the two of you encounter relationship problems. Walking together freely and radiantly through the world can fill you with the glow of being with someone who is proud to be with you. As appreciative as he sounds, many women who are involved with married men come to resent his having the best of both worlds, when she has the least. Can you love someone who is so disrespectful of his wife? At some level, he's going to have trouble respecting you for settling for such a flawed relationship. Despite his reassuring you how much you mean to him, his not ending his relationship with his wife in an above-board and respectful way -- and not beginning a legitimate relationship with you -- are actions that speak louder than words. Human nature finds it easier to blame than to accept shame. Ever notice how quickly the years go as you get older?The existence of your relationship with a married man tells you how little he respects his wife by lying to her instead of being a man and telling her he wants out. Like the Groucho Marx joke, "He may not want to be of a relationship that would have him as a partner." 7. Like it or not, you are a willing participant in a man violating his vows and betraying the trust of his wife -- not to mention grossly disappointing his children and making it difficult for them to see him as a role model. If he is caught by his wife or conscience, don't be surprised if he tries to blame you and get you to take the fall. Because it's convenient and comfortable, a relationship with a married man can go on for a long time -- and before you know it, eat up the precious time you might have had in a healthy relationship with a chance of flourishing. Men who find out will think you’re an easy target for unwanted attention.