But in any case, whether you want to wait until marriage or whether you want to wait 3 days, I’m here to tell you, speaking from a practical dating advice point-of-view; these are both bad recommendations.When you put a timeframe on something like this, you take away the spontaneity and natural flow of attraction. If that means having sex on the first date, or the second date, or whenever that time comes, then that is what you should do.
You can have sex on the first date and still have long-term relationships.
The “Just Be Nice and She’ll Like You” crap is one of the worst dating advice for men strategies I can think of! When you try acting a certain way, you act incongruently with your inner emotions and your true self.
It literally drives me up the wall when I hear this because it’s so wrong! Women see right through this façade, and they never see the man favorably.
Women hate feeling pressured when on a date with a man. These two feeling kill sexual tension, and kill the special moment.
Rather than waiting until the very end to give her that proverbial end-of-the-night kiss, kiss her much earlier on, and take the pressure off the both of you. This way you get it out of the way and you don’t build up weird, awkward feelings between you and her.
We’ve all gotten advice at some point or another in our lives. “Just be yourself” takes the cake as being the worst piece of advice you can possibly get. By being yourself, and being the same person who has an ineffective dating life, you will not succeed!